Claire generally refers to Phil as "the kid she's married to." Her opinions about uptight ways of parenting almost always serve as a foil to Phil's calmness and tendencies to be too laid-back about many important things, such as his oldest daughter Haley wearing a short and tight skirt to school, which he called "cute."
In the episode Hawaii, Phil revealed that they were supposed to go to Hawaii for their honeymoon, but Claire got pregnant with Haley before they could go. He also reveals that he had to beg Claire to marry him.
In the episode Strangers on a Treadmill, we learn that Claire does not think Phil is funny, though this opinion changes by the end of the episode.
Jay gets along with and views Phil like many stereotypical in-laws do, much to Claire's chagrin. Claire says that the relationship between Phil and Jay is very strained, and she has tried on many occasions to bond the two of them. One of these attempts ended with Jay presumably flying an airplane into Phil's face. It is never figured out whether this was intentional or an accident. The result of this was complaints from Claire, Gloria, and Mitchell; which led to Jay hugging Phil and Cameron.
Physical appearance and typical attireEdit
Phil is in good shape and likes to prove his manliness. He is often seen wearing a dress shirt and trousers. On the show's two Valentine's Day episodes, My Funky Valentine and Bixby's Back, Phil has taken on an alter ego of Clive Bixby (ergo the name for the latter episode) to go role-playing with Claire, who also took on an alter ego. Both attempts went horribly wrong and ended in either Phil or Claire being in a tight position.
Quirks and personality traitsEdit
Phil is generally goofy and often doesn't plan things through. He is often paired with Claire, one of the kids, or Jay to drive the story.
He considers himself to be the "cool dad," which his children often disagree with. He goes to extremes to bond with his children, going so far as to learn the dances to songs from High School Musical and wearing a custom jacket featured in the film. He is also shown to be very competitive, not even allowing his son to score a basket out of pity while playing basketball with him.
Phil suffers from coulrophobia, intense fear of clowns. This was revealed in the episode Fizbo, when Cameron came to Luke's birthday party dressed as a clown. He has addressed this and says that his mother thinks the fear originated from him finding a dead clown in the woods one day when he was little.
Phil's laid-back way of handling situations often gets him into chain reaction situations in which the problem grows after every event. He often has to lie to avoid getting into trouble with Claire, though she always ends up finding out in the end, often leaving Phil in embarrassment.
Phil is apparently very good at choosing presents, this is said by Claire in a few episodes, these episodes usually involve Clarie having to get Phil a birthday/anniversary present which she is very bad at.
Phil, along with Claire, has shown an interest for "cheesy cinema". His other interests include sports, his job, watching the nature channel and working with computers and technology. He is also shown in Up All Night to have an interest in close-up magic. Phil also loves trampolines and subscribes to a trampoline magazine. He always talks about being a 'male cheerleader' in college.
Along with his family relationships seen on the show regularly, Phil also maintains a good relationship with his father Frank, played by Fred Willard.
Frank is portrayed as a joking, irresponsible older version of Phil. Phil credits his father for giving him his laid-back attitude. In Undeck The Halls, he appeared only via webcam, in which he aimed it too high before being told by the family. He appears again in Travels With Scout, this time in person, where he brings the family his dog, Scout, who he says his wife has allergies to. He eventually takes the dog back with him. Though she has yet to appear, Frank has identified Phil's mother's name as Sarah.
Mainly supportive, but feels that she can be too uptight and over-bearing. He obviously loves her, but is seen to be innocently and easily mesmerized with beautiful women. Claire sees him as her fourth teenager. They complement each other's parenting style. He calls his style 'peerenting' a mix of being a friend and a parent.
Tries hard to be the cool dad, but it only leads to her embarrassment. Phil gets emotional when he realizes that his little girl is growing up and that she is not his little girl any more. Haley reminds him that she will always be his little girl.
Alex thinks that her parents are idiots, but she loves them nonetheless. She thinks that both Luke and her dad has ADD.
Being his only son, Phil sees Luke as his buddy and tries to do all the cool things with Luke. Phil constantly beats Luke at all activities not letting Luke win any.
Tries really, really hard to gain approval from Jay and Jay is very stubborn at not giving him any. It is almost as if Jay doesn't like Phil at all, but Jay tells Phil directly that he liked him. Once to Jay's dismay, he accidentally told Phil that he loved him, but Phil was too busy and didn't hear it. Jay introduces Phil as "Phil is my son-in-law," but Phil says it sounds like he is saying, "Phyllis, my son-in-law." Phil also complains that Jay says "Dumb-phy" instead of "Dunphy." Phil once fixed Jay's printer and since it is Phil's only accomplishment with Jay, he brings it up every chance he gets.
Phil has a crush on Gloria, once staring at Gloria through Claire's sunglasses. Gloria is seemingly oblivious. Jay says nothing of it because Phil knows not to cross the line, saying he would never stray away from Claire. He takes any and all chances to hug or touch her, except once when he realizes that Claire is the most important thing that ever happened to him. But this quickly changes back.
They have not spent much time together, but when they have, Phil treats him almost like a son instead of a brother-in-law, which he is.
Phil and CameronEdit
They don't spend much time together, but they treat each other like brothers.
Ty Burrell had received many positive reviews for performance. Hank Stuever from the Washington Post wrote, "A standout performance from Ty Burrell's new twist on the doofus-dad stereotype." Paige Wiser a reporter for the Chicago Sun Times wrote, "Ty Burrell is original as a dad who stays hip by keeping up with the numbers from "High School Musical.""
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Claire: All over YouTube. We went viral. Phil: Some sick bastard auto-tuned me.
I'm a cool dad, that's my thing. I'm hip, I surf the web, I text. LOL means laugh out loud, OMG: oh my god, WTF: why the face